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You Are Ignorant to the Amount of Photography Time You Need for Your Wedding. Good.
If you've already decided you want "6 hours of coverage" for your wedding, you don't know shit about fuck. (Thank you Rose a la Ozarks for that line.)
Here's the short version: you can't know your hours yet, and that's fine. Full breakdown on the blog.

Courtney Specht
Aug 256 min read


An Axe to Grind: Bury It or Sharpen It, Brand Alignment Cuts Both Ways
I used to hate the phrase "perception is reality." Now I live by it. A few years ago I went public with my politics and lost 12% of my following, plus a handful of signed contracts. It came back bigger. Down the street, a small business made its own alignment public through who they chose to sponsor, and now they're finding out what that costs. Brand alignment cuts both ways. You don't get to be surprised by which side of that blade lands on you.

Courtney Specht
Jul 166 min read


"Community Over Competition" Doesn't Mean What You Think It Means Anymore
I've built and failed a business, built and sold a couple businesses, and I am now scaling creative businesses well into the hundreds of thousands of dollars in sales a year - and have done so in art forward spaces with creative entrepreneurship for nearly 20 years. You can take my advice or leave it. WRITTEN BY COURTNEY SPECHT | photographer, writer, speaker, mentor | KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI Ten or eleven years ago "community over competition" was really a thing. Rising Tide

Courtney Specht
Jul 24 min read


Six Things I Wish More Photographers Would Actually Do TO BETTER THEIR BUSINESS INSTEAD OF B!TCHING ON THE INTERNET ABOUT THE ECONOMY
I've built and failed a business, built and sold a couple businesses, built am now scaling businesses well into the hundreds of thousands of dollars in sales a year - and have done so in creative spaces with creative entrepreneurship for nearly 20 years. Take my advice or leave it. WRITTEN BY COURTNEY SPECHT | photographer, writer, speaker, mentor | KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI I get a lot of "can I pick your brain about marketing?" I love that, I genuinely do. But more often than

Courtney Specht
Jun 188 min read


The Right Place isn't Always the "pretty" One
When couples start planning their engagement session, they tend to reach for the obvious — the location that photographs beautifully, the backdrop they've seen in someone else's gallery. What Michael and Marisa's Kansas City session taught us is that the right place and the prettiest place are rarely the same thing.

Courtney Specht
May 215 min read


How to Say "ISO a Photographer" - but Better
Photographers know this phrasing well, we see it in Facebook groups, neighborhood apps, community boards, basically anywhere people gather online to ask for recommendations: "Hey! Looking for a photographer for maybe thirty minutes. We just want a few quick photos. Nothing crazy, shouldn't cost an arm and a leg. Any recommendations?" If you're not in the industry, that sounds completely reasonable, truthfully. You know roughly how long you think you want someone around, you

Courtney Specht
May 205 min read


Marked + Meant To Be
A Collaborative Giveaway from Courtney Specht | Stag & Bird Curated Photo Experiences + Lindsey Chevalier | Fox Fire Tattoos at Golden Stag Tattoo Some moments in life pass quickly. A proposal, a promise, the realization that you’ve found the person you’re going to build something forever with. Most couples celebrate that chapter with a handful of engagement photos done the way they think they're supposed to do it and a celebratory dinner. But some stories deserve more than

Courtney Specht
Mar 63 min read


The Photographer “flop." It’s a Business Lesson.
A Must Read for photographers building their businesses and finding their footing beyond being an artist. Written by Courtney Specht | Stag & Bird Curated Photo Experiences All summer long, the studios in my building emptied. While my husband and I toiled away at refurbishing windows and walls in my space, my neighbors just left. Backdrops rolled up. Light stands folded. Keys turned in. Photographers deciding, often without ceremony, that this wasn’t what they thought it wou

Courtney Specht
Jan 296 min read


Creating the Art of Intimacy
A Boudoir Photographer’s Workshop | February 7, 2026 | Kansas City Boudoir photography sits at an intersection most genres never touch. It’s intimate. It’s vulnerable. And when it’s done well, it’s deeply human. When it’s done poorly, it can feel hollow, unsafe, or performative. Creating the Art of Intimacy was built because too many photographers are being taught how to pose bodies without being taught how to hold space . This workshop exists to slow things down and get ba

Courtney Specht
Jan 43 min read


How to Take a Good Photo of Your Teen on a Phone
Without Starting a Small Domestic Incident I photograph teenagers for a living. Seniors, young adults, kids who love the camera and kids who barely tolerate it. I'm also a mom to a teenager and a nearly teen. It's no walk in the park, I'll tell ya that. I’ve watched confidence rise and collapse in the space of a single swipe. I’ve seen what happens when a teen feels seen and what happens when they feel exposed. This isn’t about aesthetics or trends. It’s about understanding t

Courtney Specht
Dec 31, 20253 min read


Kansas City's Alternative Wedding, Elopement & engagement Photographer
This Is Usually the Part Where People Start Deciding Every year around this time, the conversations shift - it's officially engagement season - meaning real decisions about wedding planning is just around the corner. People stop casually browsing and start asking better questions. Not louder questions. More specific ones. They’re no longer trying to figure out what they should want. They’re trying to figure out what actually fits. That’s usually when they land here. Stag & B

Courtney Specht
Dec 29, 20253 min read


Elopement vs. Micro-Wedding: What’s the Difference, and Which One Feels Like You?
by Stag & Bird Photo – Kansas City Wedding & Elopement Storytellers for the Weird, Wild, and Unapologetically in Love Microwedding on family property in Raymore, MO. You’re newly engaged. The confetti is still on the counter, your coffee is cold, and every Kansas City wedding inspiration board has now multiplied into twenty. You start searching for venues, vendors, and pricing, and something becomes clear: a traditional large wedding might not feel like the kind of celebratio

Courtney Specht
Dec 10, 20254 min read


So You Want Your Alternative Wedding or Elopement Published? Read This First.
If you’re here, chances are you had (or are planning) a wedding or elopement that didn’t fit the template. Maybe you wore black, eloped in a tattoo shop, used taxidermy as decor or had a mosh pit instead of a slow dance. You created a day that felt like you , and now you’d love to see it featured on Rock n Roll Bride, Dancing With Her, Quirky Weddings UK, Weird Wild Wed or another alternative publication. First off, I get it. As an alternative wedding photographer and elopeme

Courtney Specht
Nov 24, 20253 min read


Your ALTERNATIVE Kid Isn’t a Gimmick: The Problem With Lazy Senior photographer's Responses
Stag & Bird Photo - where alternative senior photos are the norm and weird is welcomed. When a parent hops into a Facebook group and asks...

Courtney Specht
Sep 24, 20254 min read


High Tea, Higher Vibes: A 420 Styled Wedding at Flutter Farms (get your 420 wedding ideas here)
Kansas City Cannabis Wedding Photography - Stag & Bird Photo Weddings don’t have to follow dusty rulebooks or keep grandma’s ghost happy....

Courtney Specht
Sep 20, 20253 min read


🚩 The $4,500 Wedding Photography RED FLAG 🚩
Not all $4,500 wedding photography packages are created equal. As a Kansas City wedding photographer, I’ve seen vendors promise the moon—12 hours of coverage, film, video, and more—for a price that barely covers expenses. Between today’s economic fuckery and a race-to-the-bottom mentality, couples deserve to know what their investment really buys. Here’s why $4,500 should mean thoughtful, sustainable artistry—not bargain-bin promises.

Courtney Specht
Aug 20, 20253 min read


Senior Portraits in Kansas City: For the Shy, the Bold, and the Beautifully Offbeat
Leo stuns at Vaile Mansion. Give me your shy. Your bold. Your off-beat souls aching to be seen. The quiet kids with wild ideas. The loud...

Courtney Specht
Aug 19, 20252 min read


Stag & Bird Photo – Kansas City’s Unapologetically Different Photographer
If you’re here, you’ve probably figured out that we’re not the “smile pretty and tilt your head” kind of photography studio. Stag & Bird...

Courtney Specht
Aug 15, 20252 min read


Dancing with her magazine feature
Imagine my surprise when checking out one of my favorite wedding magazines website - just a scrolling along and BAM! There’s my girls...

Courtney Specht
Mar 22, 20251 min read


Life is Like a camera
Life Is Like a Camera: Focus, Capture, Develop, and Take Another Shot There’s something about a camera that teaches you more about life...

Courtney Specht
Mar 21, 20253 min read
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