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Creating the Art of Intimacy
A Boudoir Photographer’s Workshop | February 7, 2026 | Kansas City Boudoir photography sits at an intersection most genres never touch. It’s intimate. It’s vulnerable. And when it’s done well, it’s deeply human. When it’s done poorly, it can feel hollow, unsafe, or performative. Creating the Art of Intimacy was built because too many photographers are being taught how to pose bodies without being taught how to hold space . This workshop exists to slow things down and get ba

Courtney Specht
Jan 43 min read


How to Take a Good Photo of Your Teen on a Phone
Without Starting a Small Domestic Incident I photograph teenagers for a living. Seniors, young adults, kids who love the camera and kids who barely tolerate it. I'm also a mom to a teenager and a nearly teen. It's no walk in the park, I'll tell ya that. I’ve watched confidence rise and collapse in the space of a single swipe. I’ve seen what happens when a teen feels seen and what happens when they feel exposed. This isn’t about aesthetics or trends. It’s about understanding t

Courtney Specht
Dec 31, 20253 min read


Kansas City's Alternative Wedding, Elopement & engagement Photographer
This Is Usually the Part Where People Start Deciding Every year around this time, the conversations shift - it's officially engagement season - meaning real decisions about wedding planning is just around the corner. People stop casually browsing and start asking better questions. Not louder questions. More specific ones. They’re no longer trying to figure out what they should want. They’re trying to figure out what actually fits. That’s usually when they land here. Stag & B

Courtney Specht
Dec 29, 20253 min read


Elopement vs. Micro-Wedding: What’s the Difference, and Which One Feels Like You?
by Stag & Bird Photo – Kansas City Wedding & Elopement Storytellers for the Weird, Wild, and Unapologetically in Love Microwedding on family property in Raymore, MO. You’re newly engaged. The confetti is still on the counter, your coffee is cold, and every Kansas City wedding inspiration board has now multiplied into twenty. You start searching for venues, vendors, and pricing, and something becomes clear: a traditional large wedding might not feel like the kind of celebratio

Courtney Specht
Dec 10, 20254 min read


So You Want Your Alternative Wedding or Elopement Published? Read This First.
If you’re here, chances are you had (or are planning) a wedding or elopement that didn’t fit the template. Maybe you wore black, eloped in a tattoo shop, used taxidermy as decor or had a mosh pit instead of a slow dance. You created a day that felt like you , and now you’d love to see it featured on Rock n Roll Bride, Dancing With Her, Quirky Weddings UK, Weird Wild Wed or another alternative publication. First off, I get it. As an alternative wedding photographer and elopeme

Courtney Specht
Nov 24, 20253 min read


Your ALTERNATIVE Kid Isn’t a Gimmick: The Problem With Lazy Senior photographer's Responses
Stag & Bird Photo - where alternative senior photos are the norm and weird is welcomed. When a parent hops into a Facebook group and asks...

Courtney Specht
Sep 24, 20254 min read


High Tea, Higher Vibes: A 420 Styled Wedding at Flutter Farms (get your 420 wedding ideas here)
Kansas City Cannabis Wedding Photography - Stag & Bird Photo Weddings don’t have to follow dusty rulebooks or keep grandma’s ghost happy....

Courtney Specht
Sep 20, 20253 min read


🚩 The $4,500 Wedding Photography RED FLAG 🚩
Not all $4,500 wedding photography packages are created equal. As a Kansas City wedding photographer, I’ve seen vendors promise the moon—12 hours of coverage, film, video, and more—for a price that barely covers expenses. Between today’s economic fuckery and a race-to-the-bottom mentality, couples deserve to know what their investment really buys. Here’s why $4,500 should mean thoughtful, sustainable artistry—not bargain-bin promises.

Courtney Specht
Aug 20, 20253 min read


Senior Portraits in Kansas City: For the Shy, the Bold, and the Beautifully Offbeat
Leo stuns at Vaile Mansion. Give me your shy. Your bold. Your off-beat souls aching to be seen. The quiet kids with wild ideas. The loud...

Courtney Specht
Aug 19, 20252 min read


Stag & Bird Photo – Kansas City’s Unapologetically Different Photographer
If you’re here, you’ve probably figured out that we’re not the “smile pretty and tilt your head” kind of photography studio. Stag & Bird...

Courtney Specht
Aug 15, 20252 min read


Dancing with her magazine feature
Imagine my surprise when checking out one of my favorite wedding magazines website - just a scrolling along and BAM! There’s my girls...

Courtney Specht
Mar 22, 20251 min read


Life is Like a camera
Life Is Like a Camera: Focus, Capture, Develop, and Take Another Shot There’s something about a camera that teaches you more about life...

Courtney Specht
Mar 21, 20253 min read


The Story Behind Stag & Bird: More Than Just a Photography Business
Back in October we had a feature with Voyage KC Magazine, and just never shared. We recently had a new interview, and expect to see more...

Courtney Specht
Mar 20, 20252 min read


Why We Don’t Offer Mini Sessions with Live Animals—And Why You Should Think Twice
Why We Don’t Offer Mini Sessions with Live Animals—And Why You Should Think Twice Every spring, social media floods with adorable images...

Courtney Specht
Feb 25, 20253 min read


Why Choosing a Seasoned Wedding Photographer is Worth Every Penny
Your wedding day is one of the most important milestones of your life. It's a day filled with love, joy, and countless precious moments...

Courtney Specht
Aug 3, 20243 min read


Thirty-Nine
Damn, how lucky am I? For the past five revolutions of the sun, I’ve taken a moment to write about aging, changing and evolving. Today is...

Courtney Specht
Aug 3, 20242 min read


The Personal Touch: Why Connecting with Your Wedding Photographer Matters
Your wedding day is one of the most intimate and significant days of your life. It's a day brimming with emotion, joy, and countless...

Courtney Specht
Jul 31, 20243 min read


Why We Love Being Besties with Wedding Planners
At Stag & Bird Photo, we know that a seamless wedding day is a result of great teamwork. One of our favorite collaborators on this...

Courtney Specht
Jul 30, 20242 min read


Elope in Kansas City
Couples, ditch the traditional wedding chaos and elope in Kansas City for a legendary, no-holds-barred experience: 1. **Badass Venues**:...

Courtney Specht
Jul 28, 20241 min read


The Wedding Photographer Checklist: A No BS Way to Ensure You're Not Left High and Dry
Whether you choose Stag & Bird or another option, before signing anything, ask your potential photographer these non-price-related...

Courtney Specht
Jul 26, 20244 min read
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